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The Parable of Kalamos

In Greek mythology, Kalamos, the son of the river-god Meander, fell in love with Karpos, the son of Zephyrus, the god of the west wind. Tragically, Karpos drowned during a swimming contest, leading to immense grief for Kalamos. In his sorrow, Kalamos chose to join Karpos in the afterlife, and as a symbol of their enduring love, the gods transformed him into a river reed.

This tale is believed to have inspired Walt Whitman's famous poetry collection, Leaves of Grass. Although Whitman never explicitly discussed his sexual orientation in public, Leaves of Grass is often seen as an artistic expression of his personal journey and a subtle way of revealing his true self.

Furthermore, the parable of Kalamos and the use of shadows in images serve as a tribute to all those who lost their lives during the HIV epidemic. Although they may no longer be physically with us, their courage and resilience paved the way for a brighter future for all of us.

Our Mission

To make sexual wellness approachable and accessible for everyone.

Sexual health can be awkward; it doesn't have to be

It can be awkward to talk to someone you don't know about sex. Hell, it can be hard to talk to someone you do know about sex. And it's even harder when you're concerned something might be wrong.

As a result, sexual healthcare is too often reactionary and fear-based. Kalamos is all about turning that on its head.

We know there's a better way. We know that patients are capable of being active participants in their care. We know by creating convenient services, we enable more people to get the care they need.

That burning sensation to solve a problem

I still remember my first time getting tested, or rather the roller coaster of emotions before and after.

I woke up and it burned to pee, like badly. Half-convinced this was the end, I reached out to an older friend for advice. He calmed me down and took me to the clinic in the Castro. Yes, even in the heart of SF, I was still woefully under-educated about sexual health and afraid to go to the clinic alone.

Everyone at the clinic was kind, reassuring, and cheerful. Where I grew up, you didn't really talk about these things. 30 minutes later, the doctor had taken my samples, treated me proactively, and reassured me that everything was going to be just fine. "Come back in a week to check in," he said with a smile, handing me a heap of condoms.

What I really got out of the experience was knowledge, security, and confidence. The dissolution of stigma around sexual health and the reassurance that I would be okay was incredibly powerful.

That experience stuck with me because of how lucky I was, and that’s ultimately why I created Kalamos. Everyone deserved affirmative access to sexual wellness.

Who We Are

We are iterative, connective, research-aligned and practical.

We are a small, but growing group of queer folk who want better care modeled around our needs and our convenience.

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